Your determination and persistence are legendary. You’ve never met a goal you couldn’t crush. Whether it’s gunning for that big promotion or training for a half marathon, once you set your mind to something you study hard, work hard, train hard, and push hard to get it.
So when you decided it was time to have a baby, you naturally went all in: tracking your cycle meticulously, eating all the right foods, sacrificing your caffeine and alcohol, researching and reading everything you could get your hands on, practically driving yourself nuts with the perfection of it all.
Here at Lily & Bee Fertility, I take women who are used to pushing hard and teach them how to pull back–how to take their foot off the accelerator so their bodies can relax and do what they’re meant to do!
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You're struggling with fertility issues, but every fertility journey is unique. Choose your path, and let's get you closer to the family you've been dreaming of!
I serve New Jersey and the world through virtual fertility coaching.
Hi there! I'm
Becky Ackerman.
I spent 6 excruciating years desperately hoping to see those two pink lines.
What was I doing wrong?! As a personal trainer I was the picture of good health–in great shape, eating “clean,” and definitely used to setting a goal and then achieving it. I would spend hours on end researching on the internet, I read books, I tried tons of fertility diets, supplements, and even disgusting shakes. I cried buckets of tears, spent a small fortune on pregnancy tests, suggested on more than one occasion that my husband leave me, and for a time even regretted not getting knocked up in high school (yikes!)
But nothing worked until I finally realized how hard I was pushing, how much tension and stress I’d built up, and how much pressure I was putting on myself.
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Once I figured out how to open that release valve…well, that’s when the magic finally happened.
And that’s what I want for you, too!
What People Are Saying
"I can't say enough positive things about Becky. My fertility journey has felt very isolating, unique and sensitive to say the least - and she stuck with me over many treatments and ups and downs along the way. ... She is kind, humorous, generous with her time and informative. I trusted her with very sensitive information and never felt judged by her. Can't recommend her enough!" –K
"After six years on my fertility journey, Becky’s meditations and deep listening helped me trust my body and feel truly seen—she’s a rare and precious healer." —Briana W.
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🩷 If your whole body tenses up when you think about getting pregnant because you want it so badly, but have no idea at this point how you’re going to make it happen;
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🩷 If you find yourself lying awake at night sweating bullets about whether your time or your money will run out first;
🩷 If every pregnancy announcement sends you into a tailspin of sadness, anger, and jealousy that gets harder and harder to pull out of each time it happens;
🩷 If you are desperate to talk to someone who really “gets it” because your partner just can’t anymore, your mom has no idea what to say, and your best friend just had her second baby…
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...then it's definitely time for us to talk!
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